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What you need to know about Verbal Bullying

Verbal bullying is one major form of bullying found worldwide. It involves the use of words in a negative way to cause harm to the victim and also to gain control or power over the victim’s life. 

It mainly includes insults, teasing, put downs, etc

Effects Of Verbal Bullying
Verbal bullying can affect one physically, emotionally​, mentally and psychologically​ which can lead to:
1. Low self-esteem
2. Depression 

3. Anxiety

4. Fear

5. Memory Gap Disorders

6. Anger issues

7. Sleeping issues

8. Assulative behavior

9. Substance Abuse

10. Suicide

Most people often see verbal bullying to be an insignificant from of abuse but that is a misconception that needs to be corrected.
Words have the power to heal and to destroy… verbal bullying destroys….say no to Bullying

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Did you know???


–          No single factor puts a child at risk of being bullied or bullying others. Bullying can happen anywhere
–          45% of young people experience bullying before the age of 18

–          36%  of young people aged 8 to 22 are worried about being bullied at school, college or university 

–          There is a strong association between bullying and suicide-related behaviors, but this relationship is often mediated by other factors, including depression, violent behavior, and substance abuse (Reed, Nugent, & Cooper, 2015).

–          More  than 16,000 young people are absent from school because of bullying

–          83% of young people say bullying has a negative impact on their self-esteem

–          30% of young people have gone on to self-harm as a result of bullying

–          10% of young people have attempted to commit suicide as a result of bullying 

–          People who have been bullied are at greatest risk for health problems in adulthood, over six times more likely to be diagnosed with a serious illness, smoke regularly, or develop a psychiatric disorder compared to those not involved in bullying 

–          Those who have been bullied are more than twice as likely to have difficulty in keeping a job, or committing to saving compared to those not involved in bullying

REFERENCES:

1.www.antibullyingpro.com/blog/2015/4/7facts-on-bullying

2. http://www.americanspcc.org/bullying/statistics-and-information

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THE ABUSE SERIES – BULLYING


“Hey you!!!!

What do you think you’re doing here?

Come over here!!!!

Haven’t I warned you not to come anywhere close to my gang? Haven’t I???”

As soon as I heard those words I wished the earth would just swallow me up because I knew what was coming next

Maybe you know what’s coming next too but if you do not know then lemme enlighten you

~Hi, my name is Sawyer and I am a junior in high school

Ever since the very first day I stepped foot into my school, I have been taunted and haunted by a group of boys here.

What’s worse? I have no one to tell because it seems no one actually cares about me being bullied by some seniors.

Oh and lest I forget, apart from no one actually caring, I don’t think I can even tell because I’m actually scared of what they might do to me if they ever find out

So back to where I left off at the beginning…

I wished the earth would swallow me up because

They are going to beat the life out of me

Yes they are going to beat me for no reason whatsoever

They just find it fun to do that to me and trust me this is not the first time

When it all started, I tried to report the issue to the authorities but they didn’t take any serious action with them and after that whole experience, it just got worse.

Every where they see me I have to be punched or slapped or kicked or at worse be threatened with knives and all that. 

Now I’m scared of coming to school

I now detest a place a used to love

And I’m even scared of home because sometimes when I go home and my parents see all the bruises on my body they begin to ask questions

But I have no proper answer to give them so I just lie to them that I hit my head or something of that sort.

I’m scared because they are everywhere I go which means I get hit everywhere I go

In the washroom, the hallway, the classroom, the compound and anywhere else you can think of they are there

I wish this would all just end

I wish I don’t have to go through this every time

Sometimes I wish I could talk to someone but I can’t

I feel dejected and broken

I can’t take this anymore

The hate is too much for me

I want it all to be over

I just want to die

This is my Story….~

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THE ADVOCATE…

The most inhumane thing you could ever go through is ABUSE

It hurts, it destroys and it kills

Don’t let more people be victims

Join me as we Advocate against all forms of Abuse

You can save someone with just your voice and your words

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Let’s Stop Abuse

NO​ MEANS NO

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THE ABUSE SERIES -AFTER

“He touched me

He took my innocence

He hurt me

He broke me

He warned me never to tell 

Or else I’ll die”
Now this is her singsong

From being the world’s greatest to a broken soul

Can you feel it? 

The emptiness behind her words

Can you see it?

The hollowness of her eyes

Can you sense it?

The sadness in her voice

Can you touch it?

The tears from her eyes

Can you???

She wore her heart on her sleeve and now it has been ripped off to nothing

Her pride of womanhood has been stripped off of her 

Who knows what other implications it might lead to…. contraction of STIs, pregnancy or even death

For she has been broken physically, emotionally and psychologically

She needs help

She needs couseling

She needs monitoring

But even with all this, she can’t tell anyone

Because he threatened her

Now she’s broken, scared, confused and alone

And as she trudges down the path home, she wonders of it’s all worth it

For she has to go through all this….for what??

One​ selfish carnal man’s ungodly and unruly desires???
Let’s End Child Abuse

Let’s Say No to Rape

NO MEANS NO


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THE ABUSE SERIES- BEFORE

“What do I want to be in future?

That’s the question my teacher asked me in school today….

I want to be the UN secretary general when I grow up so I can help the whole world

Yes…that’s my dream”
She has a dream

That is her dream

As young as she is, she aims at helping the world at large

Such a beautiful dream is it?

But that’s not the story I’m telling today

The story continues when she meets her unfortunate dream killer

The dark clouds that consumes her soul with painful tears and bitterness

It wasn’t unconscious nor unthought of but it was a planned cruel act of a heartless being

He had laid wait in the darkness for her for so long but it looked like there was always someone with her 

And today, just when she had to go alone, the devil in him strikes

Ripping her of her clothes, dignity, future and life

She’s just but a girl with a dream and a child with a vision

She’s just but a world changer whose world gets changed rather

All for what? 

His selfish heartless and carnal desires?
Let’s End Child Abuse

Let’s say no to Rape


NO MEANS NO

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THE ABUSE SERIES

“Help!!! Help!!!! Somebody save me!!! Please don’t do this to me!!!

Please I beg you please stop 

Stop stop you’re hurting me!!!!

Please!!!!!……”

Do you know why she’s screaming? 

Can you imagine what she’s going through?

No? You can’t guess? Let me tell you then…

She’s wailing and screaming because someone is tearing apart her insides brutally

Can you relate to it now? 

Do you understand how she’s feeling? 

Yes, you’re right or maybe you’re wrong but that’s besides the point because the point is, she is being abused sexually. 

She’s being raped by someone who is capable of being her father, Uncle, brother or even her friend.

Why is he raping her when he knows it will ruin her life? 

Why would someone​ just get up and destroy an innocent girl’s future? 

Doesn’t he have a conscience? 

No feelings or emotions?

No heart or brain?

That child being raped might be the solution to a nation’s issues but look at her now

She will never be the same again

She will lose herself if she doesn’t get help

She will be traumatized for life

She won’t see the world the same again

All due to what??? 

One selfish, heartless man’s carnal, unruly and ungodly desires?

LET’S END CHILD ABUSE

LET’S STOP RAPE

NO MEANS NO

THE ADVOCATE

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