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What you need to know about Verbal Bullying

Verbal bullying is one major form of bullying found worldwide. It involves the use of words in a negative way to cause harm to the victim and also to gain control or power over the victim’s life. 

It mainly includes insults, teasing, put downs, etc

Effects Of Verbal Bullying
Verbal bullying can affect one physically, emotionally​, mentally and psychologically​ which can lead to:
1. Low self-esteem
2. Depression 

3. Anxiety

4. Fear

5. Memory Gap Disorders

6. Anger issues

7. Sleeping issues

8. Assulative behavior

9. Substance Abuse

10. Suicide

Most people often see verbal bullying to be an insignificant from of abuse but that is a misconception that needs to be corrected.
Words have the power to heal and to destroy… verbal bullying destroys….say no to Bullying

-The Advocate

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THE ADVOCATE…

The most inhumane thing you could ever go through is ABUSE

It hurts, it destroys and it kills

Don’t let more people be victims

Join me as we Advocate against all forms of Abuse

You can save someone with just your voice and your words

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Let’s Stop Abuse

NO​ MEANS NO

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-Descriptt

THE ABUSE SERIES -AFTER

“He touched me

He took my innocence

He hurt me

He broke me

He warned me never to tell 

Or else I’ll die”
Now this is her singsong

From being the world’s greatest to a broken soul

Can you feel it? 

The emptiness behind her words

Can you see it?

The hollowness of her eyes

Can you sense it?

The sadness in her voice

Can you touch it?

The tears from her eyes

Can you???

She wore her heart on her sleeve and now it has been ripped off to nothing

Her pride of womanhood has been stripped off of her 

Who knows what other implications it might lead to…. contraction of STIs, pregnancy or even death

For she has been broken physically, emotionally and psychologically

She needs help

She needs couseling

She needs monitoring

But even with all this, she can’t tell anyone

Because he threatened her

Now she’s broken, scared, confused and alone

And as she trudges down the path home, she wonders of it’s all worth it

For she has to go through all this….for what??

One​ selfish carnal man’s ungodly and unruly desires???
Let’s End Child Abuse

Let’s Say No to Rape

NO MEANS NO


-The Advocate

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THE ABUSE SERIES- BEFORE

“What do I want to be in future?

That’s the question my teacher asked me in school today….

I want to be the UN secretary general when I grow up so I can help the whole world

Yes…that’s my dream”
She has a dream

That is her dream

As young as she is, she aims at helping the world at large

Such a beautiful dream is it?

But that’s not the story I’m telling today

The story continues when she meets her unfortunate dream killer

The dark clouds that consumes her soul with painful tears and bitterness

It wasn’t unconscious nor unthought of but it was a planned cruel act of a heartless being

He had laid wait in the darkness for her for so long but it looked like there was always someone with her 

And today, just when she had to go alone, the devil in him strikes

Ripping her of her clothes, dignity, future and life

She’s just but a girl with a dream and a child with a vision

She’s just but a world changer whose world gets changed rather

All for what? 

His selfish heartless and carnal desires?
Let’s End Child Abuse

Let’s say no to Rape


NO MEANS NO

-The Advocate

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Changes….


She stayed awake all night thinking of what was to come

A sad smile gracing her face even as the day broke

Even the dawn of a new day did nothing to change her mood

Neither did the brightness of the sun light up her world

Now her once sparkling eyes have become mere dull balls which look at the world in a different perspective at a darker phase

Her once huge vibrant heart is now a small hollow space

Changes… 

-Descriptt

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Beginning to End

The sweet beginning of a painful end cracks

The blinds fall slowly and suddenly it’s all over

It seems unbelievable but it’s the sad truth

It seems unforgettable but it’s the happy lie

She holds on tightly even when it seems broken

She’s walking upright though she feels fallen

It’s pulling her down though she’s rising

For the deeper she sinks, the higher she rises

But what’s the point in that anyway, she ponders

Cos at the end she’s still at the same old place

Where the sweet beginning cracks into a painful end

-Descriptt

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